Tom / all,
I am 64 and still dealing with “stuff” I learned when I was a child. The world keeps changing....and in my opinion mostly for the good with regard to equality for all. One of my inspirational moments with regard to women in sports was watching the top level athletes and camaraderie of the PSU Women’s Volleyball teams in the 70s-80s. Individual / teamwork greatness at work.
There are women that CRUSH me in Cross and MTB. That is how it should be. They are faster. Gender means nothing in these situations unless someone chooses to make it an issue. The good is that the people who see a boy / man getting passed by a girl / woman, might end up changing their perspective if someone speaks with them about it.........or they will eventually fade away and be replaced by younger generations who do not see it as an issue at all. When I have helped with the kiddie cross races (and short track), it has been inspiring to see girls smack down the boys and all of them just be fine with how it went down in general. It was some of the parents at times that were a little bent if a girl beat a boy. Most parents of young ones now are totally fine with boy /girl both being winners. I believe your daughter will thrive because she will hear many more positive comments than negative when and if she chooses to race a bike.
ron
From: Thom Schoenborn
Sent: Monday, October 21, 2013 8:08 AM
To: August Frank
Cc: mailto:obra@list.obra.org
Subject: Re: [OBRA Chat] "You got passed by a girl, " said the slack jawed yokel at PIR
Pretty sure this issue wasn't getting heckled, but rather one of content. I, for one, don't look forward to the day when I have to explain to my daughter why some people think she might be a second-class racer. If more people stand up and make that kind of heckling unacceptable, maybe I won't have to.
On Monday, October 21, 2013, August Frank wrote:
If you can't take heckling, you shouldn't be racing cross.
On Mon, Oct 21, 2013 at 12:16 AM, Brendon Gallant wrote:
Go cry yourself to sleep, or pedal harder. Your choice.
Or better yet, yell back at said "gomer" with your argument regarding girls and women. I'm sure he would be impressed.
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On Oct 20, 2013 11:11 PM, "Kenneth" wrote:
Hey Gomer,
Since your mama didn't give you brains or teach you any manners, let me fill you in on a little secret:
female 0-17 years = girl
female 18-100+ = WOMAN
The WOMAN who passed me was Serena Bishop, and I salute her for her fitness and bike handling skills. Since you are too impotent to get upgraded to the A's, I suggest that you shut your hole. We are both faster than you.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=slack%20jawed%20yokel
Cheers,
Kenneth
p.s. you may want to look into this self improvement program
http://www.oregon.gov/CCWD/Pages/ged/index.aspx
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