Eddie
Hey Bradley,
I have the same jacket and had the same problem a couple years back. Here's something I did that seemed to work - take a nice long warm shower with your jacket on. It seems to do a good job of rinsing away the clogging residue and bringing back its breathability. Although, I've only tried this once, but I've heard from others that this works for them too.
The key here is to not say anything to your spouse, and observe the funny looks. If she/he does keep pressing you on what you're doing, say something ambiguous, like, "I'm worried the soap is clogging up my pores." Bring a timer too. That way you can see how long it takes to soak through if the weather does call for "showers".