FW: Thank you

Candi Murray

2005-09-11





-----Original Message-----

From: Curl, Darien [mailto:Darien-@nike.com]

Sent: Sunday, September 11, 2005 12:12 PM

To: cmur-@obra.org

Subject: Thank you



Hi Candi -



I'm not hooked up to OBRA Chat, so would you please forward this e-mail

for me ?   



I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone in OBRA land for the

absolutely amazing outpouring of support and love shown to Chauncey,

Tessa and I following my bike accident. We were overwhelmed with the

amount of caring and kindness shown to us and feel so blessed to be a

part of this community of wonderful people. There aren't enough words to

express how thankful we are to all those who have helped us.



A huge thank you to everyone who contributed to the meals that were

delivered to Chauncey, Tessa and I. How did you all know that Chauncey

can't cook ? Seriously, they were a life saver. Without the food

deliveries we would have been eating canned soup every day. The meals

were incredible and I would recommend Cheryl Austin's Moveable Feast

services without hesitation. In fact, I'm trying to figure out how to

get a raise at work so I can afford to have her deliver meals all the

time !



And another huge thank you to everyone who offered to come sit with

Tessa and I, so that Chauncey could get away from his women for awhile.

We weren't able to take everyone up on their offers, but nonetheless

they were greatly appreciated.



And of course, thank you to everyone for the phone calls, e-mails

thoughts and prayers. It has helped ease the tedium of recovery to know

that you are all out there.



For those curious , here is an update: I broke 2 bones in my pelvic

girdle in 3 different places and my sacrum (lower back) looks like a

little jigsaw puzzle, so it will take some time to heal. But the breaks

were in "good" places and there shouldn't be any long term issues. It

will just take time and patience ( not really my strong suit ) to get

back to normal. I am incredibly thankful and lucky that this is the

extent of my injuries. It really could have been SO much worse. The

driver admitted fault, but of course they did not have insurance. ( It's

never the responsible people who hit you ). They were cited and had

their car taken away.



Again, thank you to everyone. We are so lucky to have you all in our

lives ! Just be careful and aware out there on the roads , whether you

are behind the handlebars or steering wheel.



Darien



Ps- Chauncey is being nominated for Sainthood after having to take care

of both Tessa and I 24hrs a day for the past month. Really not an

enviable task, he deserves serious kudos for his patience and cheerful

willingness.